Day 16 : The November Happiness Challenge

November 16, 2017

We are reading from Maryam today . She is a witty writer who has done a lot of writing both professionally and for the fun of it.She has some gems to drop for us today and I’m all for it.

She writes

Hi, My name is Maryam Atoyebi and I am a designer, writer/visual storyteller.

For the past two years I have created content for a reputable Nigerian website but like every typical millennial, I’ve felt disillusioned and my anxiety didn’t help matters.

After spending one year at my job, I started feeling stuck and didn’t know where exactly in life I was headed. I stopped loving my job and started hating every waking moment that I had to resume at work. Seeing people do great things on social media didn’t help matters too. Don’t get me wrong, I absolutely LOVE seeing young women do awesome things in spite of the many odds they face. But I felt useless because I thought I wasn’t contributing anything positive to the world. But guess what? I am doing that and I have been doing that since I started putting myself out there.

Before the time of writing this article, I held back whenever I was presented with the opportunity of describing myself. I held back on so many things and even gave up when I realized things started becoming too hard. But Alhamdullilah, I have decided to take charge and change things around for myself. I decided to slowly discover myself and the things that made me happy or calm at least. I also did a lot of self-dragging (I had to face some hard painful truths about myself in order to be better at my job and life. One important thing I am learning from this journey is that If I weren’t afraid or anxious, I’d be unstoppable.

So how am I changing things around for myself? I started by taking time off to breathe and also weeding out everything that stressed me or even gave me anxiety. Then I was able to identify those things I spent most of my time every day on, some of which are reviewing TV shows, addressing social issues, advocating for equality and fashion of course.

Bottom line of my story is, it’s okay to not have your shit together. Also, as young people, we need to let go of self-doubt and take the plunge!


Maryam is telling us to not beat ourselves up for not having certain things in place and we should never doubt ourselves. I think that works, because if you don’t believe in yourself who will.

In addition to this, today is 6th November and what happens on this day? It’s my mum’s birthday! You know how we do it every year, I tell all my readers to help give her a call and let her know how amazing she is. She clocks 55 today and I can only pray that Allah makes me very successful soon so I can do many wonderful things from her.

If you would like to call her, please send me a private message via Twitter(omotolaniee) or Instagram(omotolanieee) and I’ll give it to you. I appreciate ya all and I can’t forget the many calls she got last year from readers who participated. Thank you!

I’ll be back. BOS.


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  • Reply Zeenat November 16, 2017 at 10:32 am

    Beautiful family pictures 😍😍
    May Almighty Allah continually bless mummy and keep her till old age

  • Reply Ameerat November 16, 2017 at 10:50 am

    Happy Birthday to your beautiful mom, may Allah grant her the best of both worlds. She looks stunning!

  • Reply F November 16, 2017 at 11:09 am

    Yaaayyy Maryam. I might as well have written that post, because that describes the point I am in life right now. Allahu Allan. Happy birthday to your mum, may Allah bless her with the life here and in Jannah. May her reunite you all together as well, in sha Allah ❤️

  • Reply keefayah November 16, 2017 at 11:33 am

    Happy birthday to mummy!!!May Allah continue to preserve her live

  • Reply Abdulhammed November 16, 2017 at 12:13 pm

    Hmmm,mariyam this is a serious issue, I feel this way too, am still trying to discover myself. May God be with us all. Beautiful mummy, now I know where you’ve got the charming smile, happy Birthday to her, may she be healthy and wealth to witness her fruit do great things

  • Reply Aramide November 16, 2017 at 1:13 pm

    Happy birthday to her, may Allah keep her for us longer.

  • Reply Vivian November 16, 2017 at 6:22 pm

    Happy birthday mummy……may Allah bless ur new age.. and may you live to see ur great grand children. Amin

  • Reply Monsurah November 16, 2017 at 8:03 pm

    Happy Birthday mummy ❤️❤️❤️

  • Reply leemlar November 18, 2017 at 5:49 am

    Happy birthday to mummy. May she live to reap the fruit of her labour In sha Allah.

  • Reply Desola November 18, 2017 at 9:56 pm

    Happy birthday to mummy, my her days be long.

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  • Reply Rahmart November 19, 2017 at 9:27 pm

    happy belated birthday mummy May God continue to bless, protect her from evil and strengthen her

  • Reply Toyeen November 25, 2017 at 4:52 pm

    You have a beautiful family.
    Sorry dear but your sis is much more beautiful.hahaha
    Happy birthday to mom, she will celebrate 100 in sha Allah

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